These posts are really hard to make without coming off as a whiney bitch, so just take what I have to say with a grain of salt.
I played Arctic pretty seriously from 96-02. I solo'd mostly for the first two years, trying to figure out how to play the game. Eventually, I figured out most of the solo content and wanted to try zones like Soth, etc, because I really enjoyed the DL lore. Of course, staying neutral in this game is almost impossible, and I eventually had to clan as I had been red highlighted and killed quite a few times for zoning with the "wrong clan". I had a lot of fun zoning with the clan I joined, as we mostly spent our time trying to figure out keywords, talking shit (sex stories, etc), and generally just having a good time. We also engaged in some pretty sweet mass PvP battles, which were by far some of the most fun I had playing back then.
Over the past 10 years, I've only gotten to play about a month. I did get to check out the new robe quests and the pally class changes (which are both bapting awesome IMO).
About 2 months ago, I had to move and dug up a bunch of old Arctic notes in the process. It really gave me the bug to try and play again. I started reading the news and saw a bunch of pretty sweet changes Aristox has been making that really got me excited to play. When the new wipe hit, it took me a little bit to get my bearings, but I found my stride and started soloing some of the new content that I could. I did enjoy it, but really wanted to try some of the more difficult new zones.
The new Soth Zone was high on my list, and was exciting exploring and finding (sometimes the hard way) the dts solo. I did quickly find I needed a group to explore the zone though, as it no longer seems solo-explorable.
However, within a week I got turned off by two things which really haven't changed in the 10 years I've been gone.
1) People who know everything, about every zone, and just drag you through as a bot.
2) Getting gang raped by <Clan B> for zoning with <Clan A> without warning, and then being told you can't play or you will be permanently hunted.
To be honest, these really sucked the will to play out of me. By the time I finish work, gym, and family time, I'm lucky to get an hour to myself for gaming. Yes, back in the day, I would have had a great time nerding out, joining a clan again, spamming zones and hunting people down...
But now.. I don't know, something has changed in the last 10 years... Maybe I'm just old and boring now, I don't know. I just don't have the energy to deal with nerd-bullies anymore. I don't want to be a bash-bot and dragged through zones. I don't want to be spamming zones for ranks, spamming the who list, on constant alert for player enemies. After my day, I just want to sit at my computer, relax, drink a beer, explore zones slowly, figure out keywords, etc.
But to be honest, trying to be a casual neutral hasn't changed in 10 years. You just can't do it, because two things are guaranteed.
1) You will not be able to lead, and will be dragged through zones.
2) You will be red highlighted and hunted for even trying to zone.
Back in the day, I had the time to play the game as a hardcore player. I don't now. And honestly, I don't really know a fix. I mean, at this point, I'd be willing to buy the game, make my own 6 man party, and play it as a Bauldur's Gate type single player experience just so I could actually "play" the game.
So anyways, I really wanted to try the legend quests as well. I was pretty close with my warrior, rank 17 or 18 I think. But I had to delete as I just don't have the will to continue.
This isn't something I'd expect to see happen anytime soon, and maybe it's something that just can't be changed ever for the good of the game. But, if you do figure out something in the future, I'd be totally game to play again.
Anyways, best of luck! Arctic will always hold a special place in my gaming heart.